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Life of Pi and Believing in God

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“I have a story that will make you believe in God. This powerful statement made early on in the movie Life of Pi, is the one that 93853_galsticks with me the most.  The story that will make us believe in God is told by Pi, a middle-aged Indian man, to a writer looking for a good story.

You have probably heard of Life of Pi by now and many of you will have seen it. In the Academy Awards it was awarded best achievement in cinematography.  It is an amazing feast for the eyes in 3-D.   It’s also a film that leaves people thinking about its meaning long after seeing it.  I had read the book (by Yann Martel)  a few years ago and this is one of those few stories that is more powerful in film form.  It has breathtaking scenes such as a school of dolphins, a whale leaping into the sky and amazing sunsets reflecting into the water.  The film takes on a magical quality at times while at other times it deals with the savage brutality that can be brought out by people trying to survive in life and death situations.

The story within a story is about Pi (first time actor Suja Sharm) a sixteen-year-old youth who is in a shipwreck.  He survives alone with Richard Parker, a 450-pound Bengal Tiger, on a lifeboat for 227 days.  I don’t want to spoil the plot for those who haven’t seen the movie so I won’t go into all the metaphors, symbolism and layers that make up the story.  The truth of the story like the truth of God is up to each of us to decide.  What I will explore is the story’s spiritual side.

As Pi is telling the story of his childhood we find out he was the son of a zookeeper in India who believed in the New India and hard science.  Whereas, Pi is a seeker who is born Hindu, comes to love Jesus and practices Islam.  Each religion has its own myths, fables, rituals and customs and Pi sees their value and comes to realize the underlining essence of each religion is love.

When Pi is alone at sea with only a tiger for a companion his faith in God is severely tested.  He has to endure the pain of losing his family and live with his fear of the tiger.  His struggle for survival includes threats from sharks, starvation, dehydration, storms and loneliness.  He’s forced to find a way to catch and kill fish to feed himself and Richard Parker even though normally he is a vegetarian.

A few scenes stood out for me as major spiritual turning points.  In one, Pi yells out to God that he surrenders. What more does God want from him?  I think all of us can relate to that feeling when we have been tested again and again until finally we let go and surrender to God.  We know we are at life’s mercy and there is nothing more we can do.  The agony Pi goes through leads him to find courage and inner strength.

Another pivotal scene is when Pi accepts that he is going to die with grace knowing he will rejoin his loved ones.  In the scene he and the tiger are staving and dehydrated.  The tiger has collapsed on the bench and Pi sits beside him and puts the nearly dead animal’s head on his lap.   All along he has seen Richard Parker’s soul in his eyes and has come to love the tiger as a companion.   He feels that the tiger has kept him alive as he has had to stay alert to keep from getting killed by the tiger and he needed to fish to keep both of them alive.

In another scene there is a violent storm at sea and Pi stands to face it while Richard Parker cowers under the tarpaulin, which covers half the boat.  All at once the storm clouds open and light shines through.  Pi feels the light is God is speaking to him.  He unhooks the tarpaulin, so he can share the Light of God with Richard Parker.

The story asks many questions about the mysteries of life, such as why does tragedy happen, what is truth and what is our purpose here on earth?  We all go through challenges and tests that seem more than we can endure and yet we are forced to use our creativity and become stronger for the experience.  So perhaps in the end it does not matter if the story makes you believe in God, but whether it makes you think about life, love and God.

If you’ve seen the movie or read the book, share your comments.  Did the story make you believe in God?  Did it cause you to reflect on life?  Were you different in some way after seeing the movie or reading the book in how you saw tragedy, hardship and courage?

Here is the official trailer of the film.

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Harmonica Man brings music to the world

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A friend sent me a beautiful story that was on CBS News.  It’s about Andy who had nine heart surgeries.  The medicine he was taking made him feel so badly he stopped taking it.  He always wanted to learn to play the harmonica so he took lessons.  He was still around the next month so he bought hundreds of harmonicas for children and brought them to schools and taught the children to play. He’s still around eleven years later sharing music.

I wonder if the love he is giving out to children is what has kept him alive.  He’s sharing music with his corner of the world.  

 

Here is a link to the remarkable film about Andy.

www.wimp.com/harmonicaman/

The photo is of a child enjoying life.  I took it at a parade in Wayzata, MN.

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Movie Welcome and Illegal Immigrants

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Welcome-Have you seem the foreign film Welcome directed by Philippe Lioret?  At one point in the movie we see the image of a mat with the word “Welcome” at a neighbor’s front door, but the irony is that the French are anything but welcome to the illegal immigrants in their country.

 

This powerful movie is a parallel story about Simon (Vincent Lindon) a Frenchman who is going through a divorce and Bilal (Firat Ayverdi) an illegal immigrant.   Seventeen-year-old Bilal is a Kurdish man who has walked for three months from Mosul, Iraq to France.  Bilal comes to where Simon works at a public pool and asks him to teach him to swim.  Simon works with him and comes to care about him like a son.

 

There is irony in this as well because Simon’s wife Marion (Audrey Dana) is leaving him partly because of his apparent indifference to the plight of the men who have illegally immigrated to France.  Marion helps run an outdoor soup kitchen for illegal aliens who are struggling to survive. The immigrants want to get jobs so they can send money home to their families.  We see them being turned away from grocery stores, from the pool (where they want to take a shower) and being arrested.

 

The story is set in Calais, the port in northern France closest to Britain. The cliffs of Dover are visible from Calais.  As the story unfolds we find out Bilal wants to learn to swim so he can swim across the English Channel to the girl he loves. The youth spent three months traveling all the way from Iraq to France by foot and now has to get to England.  He tries to get across the English Channel by getting aboard a ferry but after he gets caught by the police, he decides to learn to swim so he can swim across.

 

Simon’s heart opens (as does the viewer’s) to Bilal who loves a woman so much he walked 4000 km across several countries to get to her, and now is willing to swim across the English Channel.  We also sympathize with Simon who says to his wife, “I couldn’t even walk across the road to get you back.”  Simon still loves Marion and doesn’t know how to heal their marriage.  Marion watches him help Bilal and realizes that Simon has begun to awaken to the plight of the illegal immigrants.  She even worries for Simon who could be arrested and even incarcerated for helping Bilal.

 

I don’t want to give away the story, but rather focus on the topic of illegal immigrants.  Where I live in Minneapolis we have illegal aliens from Mexico.  When men get arrested, they get sent back even though the may be leaving a wife and children behind in Minnesota.  It seems cruel to send them back.  Yet our country is in a recession/depression and there aren’t enough jobs for our own people.  Moreover, how can we afford to educate these children who don’t even speak English?  How do we afford to pay for these people’s healthcare?  Yet our country is based on immigration.  We all immigrated here.  Even the Native Americans immigrated here at one time.

 

Our country is the land of freedom and opportunity.  At least that was what it was called when I was a child.  We have benefitted from hard working immigrants.  How do you feel about illegal immigrants?  What is our responsibility to people from war-torn countries?

 

Here is a trailer of the movie.

 

 

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Bel Kaufman, An inspiring woman at 101

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From time to time we are asked the question: “What if this was your last day?”  Instead I was wondering: “What you would do if you knew you were going to live to be 100?”  How would you live differently?  Would you still retire at 62 or 65 or even 70?  What interests would you pursue if you knew you had another 35 or 40 year to pursue them in after retirement?  What ways would you contribute to the world during those 35 to 40 years?

ImageRecently I was sent a delightful YouTube of 101-year-old Bel Kaufman. She said that retiring is like retiring from life and is quoted to have said, “I’m too busy to get old.”  At 100 she taught a college class on Jewish humor at Hunter College.  Even she seemed impressed by being asked to teach a class at her age.  She still has a sharp mind and a great sense of humor, as you will see on this YouTube on fascinating elders.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg0_ITG01bs

Bel Kaufman was born in 1911 in Berlin, Germany where her father was studying medicine, but her native language was Russian.  She was raised in Odessa and Kiev (present-day Republic of Ukraine) until she was twelve and her family immigrated to the US.

Bel is best know for having written a best selling 1965 novel Up the Down Staircase that was turned into a movie.  The book was based on some of her experiences as a high school teacher.  Her grandfather who wrote the stories that were developed into Fiddler on the Roof and who corresponded with other Russian authors such as Leo Tolstoy influenced her.

Here is a talk she gave at Iona College.  It well worth listening to the YouTube. Bel talks about humor, her novel, and her experience of having her novel being made into a movie.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YwnFDLeK64

“What you would do if you knew you were going to live to be 100?”  Did these YouTubes change your idea of what it is like to be old.  I hesitate to say senior since Bel said being called a senior reminded her of senior prom.

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Examining Rules

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My husband and I spent the week before Christmas in court.  A property we had a small ownership share of was sued.  The jury didn’t rule in our favor, so on Friday night we decided to escape into the pleasure of watching a movie.  The first movie we saw Cider House Rules (1999).  After the movie was over I was still agitated over losing the lawsuit, so we watched Billie Elliot (2000). 

Both movies explored the theme of rules and whether there are times when a person is justified in breaking them.  Our experience in court also involved rules. During our law suit the judge decided many of the decisions in the courtroom like what evidence was admissible in court, and if one lawyer objected to a question the opposing lawyer asked, the judge sustained or overruled the objection.  To some degree the judge influenced our losing the case.  The plaintiff used the court system to extort money from the owners, and the judge seemed more interested in the rules than justice.

ImageCider House Rules explored right and wrong rules. The main character Homer Wells (Tobey Maguire) was raised in an orphanage. Dr Wilbur (Michael Caine) who worked at the orphanage took him under his wing and trained him as his assistant.  Part of the doctor’s jobs was delivering unwed mother’s babies into the world. Sometimes the doctor performed illegal abortions.  Homer helped with the births but didn’t approve of abortions and wouldn’t assist with them. Dr. Wilbur broke the law when he performed the abortions, but he did it to save the life of pregnant girls who might otherwise have an unsafe abortion.

Eventually, Homer decided he wanted to see the world and left the orphanage with an unmarried couple after the woman had an abortion.  They invited him to work at a cider house.  A traveling group of fruit pickers came each year to live in the cider house and pick apples.  The house had a list of rules on the wall, but the migrant workers were illiterate.  Homer was educated at the orphanage and read the first rule loud.  The rule was to not smoke in bed, which one of the men happened to be doing.  The head of the migrant workers told Homer to stop reading the rules as they didn’t apply to them.

The list of rules was only a symbol for the much more profound rules that Homer must decide if he would follow.  He ended up breaking many rules some of which have profound consequences.

ImageThe second movie we watched was Billy Elliot (2000) set in 1984-1985 during a miner’s strike in Durham, England. Eleven-year-old Billy (Jamie Bell) was a miner’s son.  Both his father and older brother work in the mine, which was on strike.  Billy’s mother died and his senile grandmother lives with the family.  Billy’s father paid for Billy to take boxing lessons, but Billy had no interest in boxing.  When a ballet class started meeting in the same building as where Billy took boxing lessons, he found himself attracted to dance even though it’s an all-girl class.  The teacher encouraged him to dance, but insisted that he pay.  Billy skipped his boxing lessons and used his boxing money to pay for ballet dancing.  Eventually his father found out and was horrified that his son was doing something as unmanly as ballet dancing and wouldn’t let him continue. 

Meanwhile the whole town was on edge.  The miners were picketing and the mining company had hired scabs.  Billy’s older brother protested the scabs and got beaten up by the police and arrested. 

The dance teacher believed in Billy and she started teaching him privately for free.  She thought he had the talent to get a scholarship at the Royal Ballet School in London, and helped him develop a dance routine so he could audition. 

Getting into the academy in London would not only be a chance for Billy to dance, but also a chance to break out of the bleak future of becoming a miner.

Billy broke his father’s rules when he used his boxing money for dancing lessons.  Even after his father found out and forbid him to dance, Billy disobeyed his father and continued to take dance lessons because he loved dancing.  He said dancing was like he had this fire in his body, flying like bird, like electricity.

Both of these outstanding movies had powerful stories and great characters.  Billy Elliot also has fabulous dance sequences. Both movies caused me to think about rules long after I’d watched them. Rules are needed in a society by parents, teachers, governments,  etc. and most should be obeyed.  Yet some rules are bad ones or there are legitimate reasons for breaking them. 

What rules have you broken in your life?  When is it all right to break a rule and when is it wrong?  I’d enjoy hearing your feedback.   

Billy Elliot trailer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhyktCYtc1g

Billy Elliot dance scene

Cider House Rules trailer

 

 

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Ronny Edry on Ted Talk

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A friend sent me a link to a Ted Talk about Ronny Edry, an Israeli graphic designer.  In March of 2012 he shared a poster on Facebook of himself and his daughter with a message “Iranians we will never bomb your country.  We love you.”  Ronny said that the war between Israel and Iran has seemed imminent for the last decade and the people in Israel live in fear.  He posted the poster on facebook and people both in Israel and Iran responded with positive comments.  He made another poster with his wife and child, and then he made more posters of Israeli people with the same message.  Ronny said that people see images and he wanted them to see that it wasn’t just one man with this message but many Israelis.

The people from Iran responded with their own posters that said, “Iranians we will never bomb your country.  We love you.”

An Iranian girl said she’d been taught to hate the Israeli flag, but now she loved the the blue color and the star.

“Something happening,” Ronny said.  “Good news.”

One of the people commenting on the Ted show said, “I believe these brothers and sisters have stopped a war by showing unconditional love for all.  Let’s spread that around the world!!!”

It’s wonderful to see what one man can do to make the world a better place.

Here is a link to this inspiring show.  It brought tears to my eyes; maybe it will move you as well.

http://castroller.com/podcasts/TedtalksVideo/3219979

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The Forty Rules of Love, A novel of Rumi by Elif Shafak

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UnknownA friend recommended I read The Forty Rules of Love, A novel of Rumi.  It is an uplifting novel that links the East and West and is told in the form of a story-within-a-story.  I’m always interested in learning more about Rumi, one of the most popular poets in the world, and his master Shams of Tabriz, so I read the book and now want to share this rich story with others.

 

The main modern day character is Ella a present-day, Boston housewife who feels trapped in an unhappy marriage.  She stayed at home to raise their three children, but now that her daughter is in college and the twins are in high school she has started working part time at a literary agency.  She is assigned to read Sweet Blasphemy, a manuscript about Shams of Tabriz, a wandering Dervish, and Rumi.

 

At first Ella doesn’t think she can relate to the novel, but as she continues to read, she becomes curious about the author, Aziz  Zahara.  She Googles him and discovers he has a blog. On the blog she reads one of Rumi’s poems.

 

Choose Love, Love! Without the sweet life of

Love, living is a burden—as you have seen.  page 43.

 

While reading the poem she feels like everything on it is written for her eyes only.  Ella decides to email the author.  Aziz replies and they begin to correspond. Ella shares her problems and Azis his philosophies.

 

Meanwhile, in the manuscript Ella is reading, Shams wants to find a companion to share the wisdom, the forty rules of love, he has spent his life learning on his travels.  His guardian angel tells him to go to Baghdad to find a master to point him in the right direction.  Shams goes to a dervish lodge in Baghdad and eventually hears about a man who is also looking for a spiritual companion.  Shams knows this is the man he’s looking for but the master tells Shams he must wait until spring.  During the long, harsh winter, Shams keeps from being discouraged by keeping one of the forty rules of love in mind.

 

“Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem, do not enter the neighborhood of despair.  Even when all doors remain closed, God will open up a new path only for you.  Be thankful!  It is easy to be thankful when all is well.  A Sufi is thankful not only for what he has been given but also for all that he has been denied.” page 72.

 

Shams eventually meets Rumi and the two men go into seclusion for forty days as Shams shares the forty rules of love.  Rumi becomes so absorbed in taking the next step spiritually that he neglects his students, wife, sons and duties.  He and Shams build a strong spiritual bond.  His bond with Shams leads to jealousy and suspicion and eventually tragedy, but out of this comes Rumi’s eternal poetry that talks about the deep love between the student and master.

 

After reading the book, I wanted to learn more about the author just as Ella was curious about Aziz.  I discovered Elif Shafak is the most popular female author in Turkey.  I was delighted to find a good author who has a spiritual message.  The book is about all kinds of love including the love between a man and a woman, the love between a mother and her children and the spiritual love between a master and his student.

 

Here is a link to what Elif Safak has to say about the book.

 

http://www.elifsafak.us/en/haberler.asp?islem=haber&id=13

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Riding the Sound Current by Steve DeWitt

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Cover-149x234-75x119Many years ago I awoke one night in the Soul body to find an olive-complexioned, Asian-looking monk in a tan robe standing in my bedroom. He asked me to come with him and then vanished into a hole in the ceiling. I looked askance at my spiritual master, whose glowing blue form hovered in a corner of the room, and he nodded that it was ok for me to do so.  Leaving my physical body behind, I followed the monk and saw him flying up what looked like a fluorescent tube or tunnel.  About midway up, the tunnel’s gravity seemed to reverse and we dropped down onto the starlit surface of an alien planet.  When I uttered surprise at how bright the stars were, my guide explained that the planet was Mars and that the brightness was due to its very thin atmosphere.

We were standing in a desert landscape with arid plains in the foreground and dark mountain ranges in the distance. The monk pointed across the rock-strewn plain where hooded figures in brown or tan robes were being chased by soldiers in jeep-like vehicles. The robed monks appeared to be heavily outnumbered and outgunned. Many were shot and killed by their pursuers, while only a few made it to safety in the mountains. My guide informed me that the monks were freedom fighters struggling against the tyranny of the ruling Warrior class.

Outlandish as it may seem, this wasn’t my first Soul travel visit to another planet.  About twenty-five years earlier, shortly after I joined the path of Eckankar, I had been guided in the Soul body to a supra-physical spaceport on earth, where I boarded a spacecraft and was taken to a planet in the Beta Centauri system.  There I visited a museum dedicated to a very ancient time period when earth was a colony of this planet.  What I saw there and during a subsequent series of past-life recall dreams led me to write my first book, The Golden Kingdom.

At the time of my first visit to Mars, however – an experience I later used in my second book, Warriors of the Sound Current, to introduce the protagonist, Jeff, to his mission – I had no idea I was going to write a novel set on different planets as well as other planes of reality.  The Soul travel experience I was granted merely seemed to create an overwhelming curiosity within me about the Sound Current, the spiritual planes and the other planets of our solar system. I set myself the spiritual goals to visit each plane and hear its corresponding Sound, and to Soul project to each of the planets.

Soul travel is different from astral projection, which is movement in the astral body on the astral plane. In astral projection, one is tethered to the body by the silver cord.  Soul travel, in contrast, is the ability to expand one’s consciousness beyond the limitations of the physical body, as well as the astral, causal and mental bodies by contacting the Sound Current. (The Sound Current is another name for Divine Spirit, which is visible as light and audible as sound.)  Over time, as I gained some experience in spiritual travel, I came to realize Soul projection isn’t traveling at all because Soul, being one with the essence of God, is everywhere, in all places, at all times. Soul isn’t conscious of Its omni-presence due to Its identification with the human self, but in Its true state of being It really is everywhere. It follows that for Soul projection to work I had to inhabit my true state of being and awaken my awareness in another place where I, as Soul, already was.

This process is very natural for Soul, and most of us do it all the time.  The hard part is to bring a memory back to our physical consciousness from what we have seen and experienced in this higher state.  Not only do we have to train our awareness in Soul to be intense enough to manifest a physical memory of our travel, but even if we do, the censor of our mind will try to scramble it, clothe it in incomprehensible symbols, make us forget, or try to convince us it wasn’t real.  All these hurdles can be overcome, but it takes patience, perseverence, creativity and an open-minded attitude.

Some of the techniques I used to find success with my spiritual goals are mentioned on my website www.soundcurrentrider.com.  In the months and years that followed my first Mars encounter, I did eventually manage to travel to all the planets of our solar system – even Pluto, which isn’t a planet anymore – and to visit and hear the Sound Current on each of the spiritual planes as described by Paul Twitchell, the modern-day founder of Eckankar.  These experiences formed the inspiration to write Warriors of the Sound Current, which is a work of fiction but features as major characters several of the people I met in their own Soul bodies during my travels.  The landscapes, cities, state of technology and inhabitants of the planets are rendered as I saw them, and the spiritual experiences encountered by the protagonist, Jeff, are pretty much verbatim descriptions of my own, including insights and lectures given by various spiritual masters.

Scientists will of course dispute that societies actually exist on the other planets.  Our probes on Mars have found nothing but rocky desert, Venus is too hot and poisonous, and the big outer planets are naught but gas, they say.  As yet they have not fully realized that vibration is the fifth dimension, and that other realities can exist at different vibrational levels within the same space.  For most it will take a fundamental shift in their view of life and the universe before they are able to accept that most planets are inhabited, our reality isn’t the only one, and the heavenly world isn’t what they think it is.  Once that shift has taken place, they will hopefully learn about the frequency modulation technology that will allow anyone of us to physically travel to planets accross the galaxy just like we fly on airplanes accross the ocean today.  Until then, we must practice Soul travel if we wish to go there – and prepare to not be believed when we return.

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A Year with Rumi by Coleman Barks

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What’s Not Here by Rumi

 I start out on this road,

call it love or emptiness,

I only know that’s not here.

 

Resentment seeds, backscratching greed,

worrying about outcome, fear of people.

 

When a bird gets free,

it does not go for remnants

left on the bottom of the cage.

 

Close by, I’m rain.  Far off,

a cloud of fire.   I seem restless,

but I am deeply at ease.

 

Branches tremble.  The roots are still.

I am a universe in a handful of dirt,

whole when totally demolished.

 

Talk about choices does not apply to me.

While intelligence considers options,

I am somewhere lost in the wind.

 

This month my husband and I made an unexpected trip to Milwaukee to attend my aunt’s funeral.  On the way to the funeral we saw dozens of eagles at Lake Pepin.  Tree after tree had groups of eagle in it so I had to stop to take photos. 

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The funeral was the celebration of a well-lived life and a time to gather with family and friends.  While we were in Milwaukee there was a blizzard across the state of Wisconsin and Minnesota.  We drove home the next day to a world transformed by snow and ice.  I was enchanted by its beauty and took photos from the car window. 

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Rumi’s poetry and the photos of winter capture some the grace and beauty of life.  Life is a gift to be cherished while we are here.  A Year with Rumi is a series of Rumi’s poems for each day of the year.  The translation is by Coleman Barks who is one of the best translators of Rumi’s works. 

Rumi lived in the early thirteenth century in Balkh (the Persian empire).  In 1244 he met Shams Tabriz, a wandering meditator.  “The inner work that Shams did with Rumi and Rumi with Shams produced poetry.  It springs from their friendship.” p. 1.

Here are a few of Rumi’s poems from the book.

Sometimes I do

 

In your light I learn how to love.

In your beauty, how to make poems.

 

You dance inside my chest,

where no one sees you,

 

but sometimes I do,

and that light become this art.

p. 18

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Let the Beauty We Love

 

Today, like every other day, we wake up empty

and frightened.  Don’t open the door to the study

and begin reading.  Take down a musical instrument.

 

Let the beauty we love be what we do.

There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground.

 

p. 28

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Water and the Moon

 

There is a path from me to you

That I am constantly looking for.

 

so I try to keep clear and still

as water does with the moon.

 

p. 56

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Love’s Confusing Joy

 

If you want what visible reality

can give, you are an employee.

 

If you want the unseen world,

You are not living with your truth.

 

Both wishes are foolish,

but you’ll be forgiven for forgetting

that what you really want is

love’s confusing joy.

 

p. 60

I hope you enjoyed Rumi’s  poems and the photos of the beauty of winter.  Have an enjoyable holiday season.

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